Divorce Coaching Info
Divorce coaching allows the couple to make the decisions that will affect their future and their changing relationships, not the court system. Our coaching services are focused on helping you figure out and manage the practical realities of your divorce and life after divorce.
Many experts estimate that 80-90% of a divorce is emotional, while only 10-20% is legal. It is increasingly clear that a contested divorce can negatively impact individual and both parents and children for decades, if not for a lifetime—just as it has become clear that most children can and will adapt, even thrive, if their parents are willing to work together cooperatively.
Families in transition don’t have to follow old models of conflict. The collaborative approach is a new way for separating/divorcing couple to work as a team with a professional to resolve their disputes respectfully, without going to court.
Hiring a divorce coach is a sensible decision for parents, couples, families in transition, and for attorneys. The coach helps you to maintain focus and set goals in navigating the emotional and complicated circumstances of divorce. If you are an attorney, hiring a divorce coach allows you to concentrate on the legal aspects of the divorce, saving you time and allowing you to offer economical services to your clients.
If you are a divorcing parent or family in transition, a coach can help you to save time and money by avoiding conflicts and delays and the high costs of litigation. With our help you will avoid constantly litigating your disputes in family court and take back control of your own life.
Your divorce coach will provide you help in:
- Resolving conflicts
- Managing your emotions appropriately
- Thinking through emotionally charged issues
- Learning to talk about difficult problems in a businesslike manner
- Setting long term and short term goals for yourself, children and your co-parenting relationship
- Effective communication for successful co-parenting
- After divorce coaching
- Parenting Issues
- Co-Parenting Issues
- New Family and Step Family Issues
Benefits to using a Divorce Coach
- Empowers the couple to be in control, not the courts
- Targets solutions, not problems
- Reduces emotional conflict
- Focuses attorney time on law, not emotional issues
- Reduces divorce cost significantly
- Provides a solid foundation for a post-divorce relationship
- Money is spent on actual time devoted to your divorce, not on court action
Your coach understands that you are experiencing one of the most stressful times in your life. We will help you deal with the pain, anger and confusion while guiding you in solutions to successfully transition your family into your new life. Agree To Agree Divorce is a solutions-focused approach that seeks to preserve the long-term interest of your family.
Our goal is to work toward agreements regarding your family without going to court. In the process, your dignity and self-esteem are protected, and the well-being of your family is preserved.
